Posted by KT on August 11, 19102 at 00:18:30:
In Reply to: My fave topic.......HEDONISM posted by Nikki on August 10, 19102 at 22:05:50:
: ::::: siren call of summer-
: Agreed. So everytime I feel I posted a very good topic, and no one responds, I *try hard* not to take it personally....I just take heart in the fact that some people ARE reading them, just may not have much argument with it, or just not interested in that kind of topic. Could be the summer, the holydays, or just plain ol' life is interfering. :-) Besides, whatever posts I post, I don't always expect a response right away, if any at all. Heck, at my UU forums I sub to, I post a few articles there and rarely do I get a good discussion going. Tis no biggie for me.
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: :::: I believe the divine to be a hedonist; that unconditional love for all humanity is shown by the unending outpouring of sensual delights of all our senses. ::::
: Chocolate. Margaritas. Experiencing the wonders of being mildly-moderately drunk. Causually dating. Being pawed all over, and pawing another. Listening to opera. Writing poetry, songs or short stories, even if it is sex stories. Hedonism is a part of my spirituality, as sexuality is as well.
: Just remember something for me, eh? All good/consensual sex acts are hedonistic in nature, but not all hedonistic acts are sexual. ;-)
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: :::: one should revel in all the joys the sensual world offers (within reasonable limits of health and ethics, of course). They are the gifts of God/dess, and denying them is not more holy, it is less so- and denying them to another is a blasphemy, an attempt to usurp the gifts that are god's alone to give or deny. :::
: Joel, did you read a post of mine that I posted..."Attitudes of Gratitude"? I spoke of not starving myself as that is spitting in the life's affirmation. That is the way I see it, Joel. To deny myself pleasure, is to spit in life's eye.
: Honestly, I could never understand the religious people "need" to fast and deny themselves the hedonistic pleasures of the world.
: Now, everyone, do yourselves a favor....give your spouse/S.O. a long sensual kiss!!!! ;-)
: As for myself, I have a date tomorrow!
: Nikki
My wife and I celebrated our sixteenth wedding anniversary today. We had a wonderful day together. We even went out to dinner without the children. Most of you guys probably think we are always at each other's throats, but we are both making a sincere effort at respecting our differences, and trying to show that we really do care for each other. We had a bit of a regression two weeks ago when my mother came to visit, but all in all it has been much better.
The children suggested that my wife and I should have a Super Soaker battle the next time we have an argument. I like that idea. ;)